While other people are content to put down roots, see their friends regularly and take their yearly vacations and getaways, we always feel the need to keep moving.
I think that putting down roots is a great thing, don’t get me wrong. Many times while we are traveling, we discuss how nice it would be to go home and find the perfect place to live out our days. How excited we are to see our friends and family and how this time we are going to finally get traveling out of our system, buy a place in the country and live out our days in harmony.I guess that there are certain people in this world that are just explorers through and through
But every time we come home, we feel differently. Once the honeymoon period is over, after we have seen our friends and family and after we are successfully back at our jobs, we instantly start feeling the need to leave.
Why Do We Travel?
It has always been this way for us. When we first met way back in the early 90’s we immediately decided that we should move to Vancouver and have an adventure after spending less than a year in Toronto after college. We sold what little possessions we had at the time and off we went with a guitar and two suitcases. We landed at the airport without a plan, but we were definitely excited.
That was the start of things to come. Even when we do manage to stay in a city for almost 3 years as we did in Vancouver, we still needed change. We changed our career paths in Vancouver, both joining the booming film business.
But most important in understanding our psyche, we changed apartments. We always seem to need to keep changing. The apartment that we moved to wasn’t necessarily better or even in a better location, we just felt the need to change and move.
We Have Concluded that we Travel so much because we always need change.
After we became bored with everything that Vancouver had to offer, we moved back to Toronto to start to rebuild our lives again. We had to integrate ourselves into the Toronto film business which is a little insane considering things were just starting to take off in Vancouver for us. But things worked out.
Travel is a Challenge
I think that Dave and I thrive on challenges. We enjoy starting over fresh and reinventing our lives. We enjoy having to work hard and set goals to succeed and the minute we become too comfortable or relaxed in our surroundings, we become antsy.
We moved back to Toronto in 1996 and since that time have moved 8 times. One of those times we decided to move out of the city and buy a house up north to try something new, another was spending the summer at my parents trailer after coming home from our travels in Africa.
We loved every move at first, but quickly became tired of the routine. I was talking to my friend yesterday and had this epiphany. Even though we haven’t been travelers since the first time that we met, we have always been movers. As soon as college was over, we moved to Toronto without a plan, then we moved to Vancouver without a plan, we moved back on a whim and bought a house faster than most people buy a new car or television. We sold that house and went to Asia for 8 months and then we moved back only to start planning our next stage in life.
Travel keeps us Moving
We travel because we have always needed to be on the move. We are two people that need change. We have always found that with each new move our lives improve immensely and we have become so accustomed to change now that when we sit still for too long we easily become a little blue.
Yes, we have taken up hobbies, a lot of them. We join groups and work at becoming better at certain sports and activities, but we seem to thrive on change more. Going to the same gym day after day or riding the same bike route or running the same boardwalk doesn’t cut it for either of us.
Luckily we have grown and changed throughout the years together in our lifestyle as opposed to growing apart and even though our choices seem strange to others, we love how we live.
The Draw of Travel is Strong
It has taken its toll on friendships. We have friends that have been there for years, but when two people take off every chance that they get, of course our friends will go on with their lives and make new friends and find new interests. We have found that we only have a handful left and we do yearn for a circle of friends that we can feel at ease with. But the draw of leaving is stronger.
So Why do We Travel Again?
I guess that there are certain people in this world that are just explorers through and through. While people tend to judge travelers as being flaky and irresponsible, some of the greatest people in history were explorers and travelers. Marco Polo traveled for 24 years and Ibn Battuta traveled for over 30 years. Christopher Columbus explored the world for years and Mark Twain seemed to be on the move his entire life trying new things, exploring new worlds and moving to new places.
We feel more alive than any time in our life when we are traveling. Especially when we pushing ourselves to the limits like cycling a continent or climbing a mountain. When we are sleeping in rustic cabins or tents or when we are hiking through the jungle, there is a sense of truly living, a sense of becoming one with the earth. When we are watching a glorious sunset or exploring an ancient ruin, we feel at peace.
We Travel Because it makes us feel alive.
I only wish that my friends and family would come and experience what we have. Because to leave your possessions behind and meet new people, explore new places and try new adventures has become what life is all about for Dave and I. Until someone goes on their own similar journey they will never understand where we are coming from and why we do what we do.
All we know is that it makes us happy and isn’t that what life is all about, just doing what makes you happy?