After 15 minutes, I got tired of sticking my thumb up at every single car that passed me by. Desperation set upon me. I need to get to the castle in 15 minutes and there’s still 2 miles to go. I’ll never get there on time walking.

I decided to screw modesty and start to jump up and down on the side of the highway.  If they didn’t see me then, they sure will see me now. Still, no one was paying this 18 year old with her best imploring face any attention.

Until I saw a car slowing down. Uh-oh, did I see an overhead light above the car? Yup, I did. It’s a police car. He rolled down the window next to me and asked “Is everything ok?” I tried to explain in my best English what was going on… see, I have an appointment to see Hearst Castle, but the bus only goes until 3 miles away from the place.

He motioned to the back seat. I couldn’t believe my luck. I’m getting a ride from a California highway patrol. This is so cool.

Looking back at it, I couldn’t believe my dumb luck. First, I didn’t realize that hitchhiking is illegal along Californian highway and two, really, what was an 18 year old with limited English doing hitchhiking along a highway to begin with?

But that was also the start of my discovery that most people in the world are well…  nice and they’re willing to help each other out. Most of them are not out there looking to take advantage of lost and clueless travelers.

It wasn’t an isolated case. On the way back from Hearst Castle, I had to hitchhike again – this time the grounds keeper of the castle itself stopped to give me a ride.

Then there were these owners of a Chinese Restaurant in New York who sheltered me in their house when they found me walking around in Rochester – New York in a blizzard.

Or that Greek shop owner who was so determined to help us find a government office that he called his wife (and when she didn’t answer, his neighbor) to take us there. When nobody seemed to be available, he closed his shop and took us there himself.

The list goes on.

Each of this random act of kindness has left a glowing footprint in my memory of the place. Beautiful sceneries fade, photos got lost, but I still remember the stress felt and the relief brought by these strangers to the situation I was in. Even years down the line.

They inspired me to to keep on traveling despite my fear of travel.

The thing is – when I really sit down and think about it, travel scares me. So many unknowns and so many things could go wrong and have gone wrong: I’ve been yelled at by Chilean cops for apparently being stupid enough to get my stuff stolen and then not understanding their Spanish. I’ve been bitten by a potential rabid dog in Ethiopia. I’ve been chased by angry villagers in Lombok for unknowingly having run over a chicken while driving.

But the kindness of strangers we’ve encountered on and off our travels are always a good reminder that when I take that leap of faith into the unknown, there will be others ready to soften the fall. Friends and families. Strangers and unexpectedly.

It makes travel a little less intimidating.

More importantly, they’ve inspired me to give back to those in need. Especially to those who are out of place, those who are lost, and those are painfully and obviously do not know what they’re doing. Those like myself, really.

So when it’s your turn to take that leap into the wonderful world of travel, I’ll be there to help you as well.

Jill is one half of Jack and Jill Travel. Jack and Jill met in college, graduated, got jobs, got married, left their jobs, sold everything, and bought a one-way ticket to Colombia for April 18th. That’s their story in short and currently they are traveling the world together.
Likes: wine, chocolate soy milk, her Kindle (dubbed ‘Kindie’), and freshly baked bread.
Dislikes: wriggly insects, sour cream, and driving.
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  1. Anthonee

    the Angkor Wats and Pyraminds of Giza are one side of travelling. But, for me, the essence is the unique experiences that we can all share. Love it!

    1. debndave Post author

      Well said Anthonee. We always remember the experiences that happen during our travels. The sights seem to be secondary to who we met and what we did.

  2. Laurence

    I love stories like this. I’ve encountered my fair share of random kindnesses on my travels too, from the lady on the Chinese subway who paid my fare because I couldn’t work out the machine, to the lady in the German post office who drove me to her workshop to give me an electrical connector that I couldn’t find in the surrounding shops. It makes me happy to be human :)

    1. debndave Post author

      Here’s to all those that have helped you and others during your travels. I agree, we have come across many genuine and helpful people in our travels, I am happy to hear that you have had some wonderful interactions as well. Thanks for sharing Laurence.

  3. Rachel

    That is really quite funny that a police man picked you up. I love hearing how kind and generous people really are in the world. Sometimes with capitalism, we find ourselves thinking that people will only do things fo you for a buck. Not true. I have also found myself in situations in which the kindness of someone else has given me happiness and softened my fall. I was hitchiking through Germany and one night we stayed in a small town called Florshime. The next morning the owner of the backpackers drove us way out of his way to drop us at a gas station on the highway to get our first ride! (It is legal to hitchike from gas stations and slip roads, but you can’t catch rides off the motorway itself). Thank you for sharing this, it brought back some good memories X

    1. debndave Post author

      I love hearing other people’s stories about acts of kindness as well. You are right, there are still people out there that will do something out of kindness. Thanks for letting our readers know about hitchhiking in Germany. Interesting fact that you can from a gas station…The things you learn on a blog eh? :)

  4. Kate

    Love your point of view. I have had so many amazing experiences of kindness when traveling. I particularly remember one in Costa Rica, many years back. It was a cold and rainy day and there were no seats on the bus we were on so I had to sit on the muddy bus steps. An old women suddenly started speaking in high pitched tones to the people around her. Unbeknownst to me she had forced the man next to her to get up and give me his seat. I felt a little bad, but couldn’t refuse. We couldn’t speak each others language so we just nodded and smiled at each other for the rest of the trip. I can still remember her face.

    1. debndave Post author

      I can so relate Kate. When we were in Burma we had the same thing happen. We got on the bus and they made everyone move around to give us a seat. We tried to protest but it fell on deaf ears. It is in their culture to make strangers feel welcome and we couldn’t refuse no matter how hard we tried. This type of thing has happened many times in our travels, people go out of their way to make travellers feel comfortable and safe and it is a wonderful thing.

  5. California Native

    As a California Native, it’s nice to read that you experienced the true meaning of the West Coast – first hand!

    Great article – thanks!
    California Native

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