Japanese Ryokan – What it’s Like to Stay in a Traditional Inn

When visiting Nikko, a stay at a Japanese Ryokan is a must.

Nikko is as traditional as it gets. Named a UNESCO World Heritage Site, it is one of Japan's most sacred regions. For centuries it has been a mountain centre of worship for Shinto and Buddhist religions and Nikko saw the first Shogun of Japan.

Today it is an important pilgrimage to see the Toshogu Shrine that honours the founder of the shogunate, Tokugawa Ieyasu.

If you are going to make the trip from Tokyo to Nikko, it is worth staying in a traditional Japanese Inn, known as a Ryokan.

Japanese Ryokan Stay


We had the privilege of staying at the picturesque Kanaya Kinugawa Hotel and Onsen located on the Kinugawa River. It was our final two nights in the Nikko area and what a way to finish it off!

What to expect in this article

  1. What is a Ryokan
  2. Rules of a Ryokan
  3. Japanese Toilets Explained
  4. A Traditional Japanese Hotel Room
  5. What is a Yukata
  6. Dinner at a Ryokan
  7. Japanese Public Baths - Onsen
  8. Rules of an Onsen
  9. Video Tour of Hotel Kanaya Kinugawa

What is a Ryokan?

A Ryokan is a traditional Japanese hotel that takes you back in time.

Ryokan Japanese Hotel

The floors of your room are padded with tatami mats

Beds are comfortable futons complete with fluffy duvets.

Sliding doors separate rooms that look like rice paper screens

Ryokan Japanese Onsen Hot tub

A low table and zabuton floor cushions are front and centre for use and drinking tea

Finally, Yukatas (summer kimonos) are complimentary for wearing at your leisure

An Onsen (hot spring) flows into the grounds offering public baths or private pools

Rules of a Ryokan

Japanese Ryokan Rules

  • Shoes are never worn in your room.
  • When entering your room, take off your shoes at the front door and use the slippers that are provided.
  • There are different slippers for different occasions.
  • You will be provided slippers that you can wear around the hotel - to dinner, to the spa and to the lobby.
  • Slippers that you wear in your room only.
  • And there are even slippers that you change into when entering the bathroom or toilet.
  • Try your best to change into the appropriate slipper for each activity.
  • Dinners are scheduled and you must let the staff know in advance what time you are eating as meals are elaborate and take a lot of preparation.
  • Yukatas (light kimonos) are provided for all guests and you can wear them if you choose. We recommend wearing them because everyone does and you will look odd going to dinner in regular clothing.
  • If you have any questions or are confused about anything, just ask. The Japanese are the most polite and courteous people in the world and are always happy to help.

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The Kanaya Kinugawa Hotel and Onsen

Kinagawa Hotel and Onsen

We arrived at the Kanaya Kinugawa in the afternoon, just before dinner and were escorted to our room.

Our guide Yoshi reminded us to take off our shoes before entering the room and change into the slippers provided.

Japanese Ryokan traditional room

After a quick tour of the room from the hotel staff, we let out a giddy cry of delight to finally be staying in a traditional Japanese Inn.

Our first stop was the toilet. Japan is the only place on earth that one can get excited about the toilets.

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Japanese Toilets

Japanese Toilet

Toilets in Japan are divine and our bathroom at the Kanaya Kinugawa was up there as the best. Japanese toilets are smart toilets that do everything from self-clean and sanitize to cleaning up your bottom with hands-free state of the art technology.

We checked out or toilet skimming through the menu of drawings and Japanese characters that we could only understand through trial and error.

The seats are heated and once you finish your business, you can choose to wash either end of your bottom while pressing a button to aim the water at just the right spot.

Ryokan Japanese Toilet Controls

We played around with pressure, position and different controls before finishing up with the butt dryer to make us feel fresh and complete.

You don't even have to use toilet paper with these machines. I don't think Dave has ever looked forward to his morning business as much as he did in Japan!

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Traditional Japanese Hotel Room

Ryokan Japanese in Kaya Kinagawa

Our room had the choice of sleeping on the tatami mats on the floor or sleeping on our beds.

We did a tatami experience the night before, so we decided to stick with beds this time around.

But you must sleep on futons at least once.

Japanese Ryokan Tatami Mats

When you go for dinner, the staff comes into your room and moves the low table and cushions aside to make up your beds.

I don't think I have ever experienced such fluffy duvets and if I had more room in my luggage, I would have brought some to take home with me!

It is a very comfortable sleep and many elderly Japanese still sleep on futons to this day.

Ryokan Japanese Beds

Our room was quite luxurious with a tatami area, a sitting area, a separate bedroom and a separate shower and washroom from the toilet.

Hot tea is provided and we made a fresh brew as we sat on our stools looking out from the balcony at the beautiful hills of Nikko National Park.

Unlike western hotels where a simple kettle is offered. Here they have a hot pot that is temperature controlled giving you instant hot water whenever you want it.

We were even given a tablet for us around the hotel. I honestly didn't ever want to leave the room!

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Royokan Japanese Yukata

One of the first things you do when entering a Ryokan is to change into the Yukatas provided.

Yukatas are lightweight kimonos that you wear around the hotel. You wear them to dinner, to the public baths and in the bar. In essence, anytime you go out in public areas, you wear the Yukata.

When wearing a Yukata you don't wear anything but underwear under the lightweight cotton garment.

Deb in her Yukata at dinner

Deb in her Yukata at dinner

When putting on the Yukata, bring the right side of the robe over to your left and then fold the left side over the right.

Fasten it with the sash provided and tie it on the left-hand side. Women can also tie it at the back in a nice bow.

The hotel also offers white socks with a slot for the big toe to be able to wear the slippers (flip-flop or thong type) provided.

Ryokan Japanese Yukata Dinner

When the robe is on you have the option of wearing the outer vest or jacket to keep you warm. We stayed in the autumn, so it was a nice addition to our wardrobe.

One final thing the hotel offers is a silk pouch to carry your cell phone, keys and anything else that you want to carry to dinner.

They really think of everything!

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Dinner at a Japanese Ryokan

Japanese Ryokan dinner

Now that we are dressed the part, it is time to take in the main event of staying at a traditional Japanese Ryokan.

Dave and I didn't realize that dinners were such a large part of the experience and were taken aback as to just how long meals lasted every night.

But when local Japanese stay at a Ryokan, they expect an extravagant dinner that lasts for about two hours.

Ryokan Dinner Japanese Beef

You can choose to have dinner in your tatami room and we noticed that many guests chose this option. When walking to the dining room, we saw many room service tables outside doorways in the hall.

Since we don't speak Japanese and need our guide to explain the meals we were eating, we had dinner each night in a private room with our guide Yoshi.

Yoshi explained each course and helped us decide when we should have saki with a dish, or beer, or when tea was appropriate.

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The meals at the Kanaya Kinugawa are extraordinary.

Ryokan Japanese Kaya Kinigawa Food

Chef John Kanagawa creates a fusion of French and Japanese cuisine creating a 10-course meal to perfection.

We did have a few dishes that took our Western palette some getting used to, but for the most part, each meal was a wonderful Japanese surprise.

We had dishes of soups and sushi, Wagyu beef and an assortment of fresh seasonal ingredients sourced locally from the Kinigawu River, Tochigi and throughout Japan.

Japanese Food Ryokan

The meal starts and ends in the lounge where we sit in tranquillity enjoying canapes and aperitifs before the meal and then afterwards, a dessert cart filled with macaroons, chocolate and treats to accompany our tea or coffee.

Dinner is truly a spectacle that should not be rushed!

I loved the feeling of looking around to see everyone dressed in their Yukatas taking in the peace and relaxation.

Sitting in the lounge at night made me realize why people come to a Ryokan. It is truly a place to unwind and get away from it all.

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Onsen - Public Baths

Ryokan Japanese Spa

But dinner isn't the main attraction that brings people to a Ryokan, it is the hot springs that make the experience unique.

Ryokans are usually located next to hot springs and the Kinugawa Onsen is a famous hot spring that is only two hours north of Tokyo.

Hot springs in Japan are not like hot springs in other parts of the world.

Ryokan Japanese Bath relax

Like many things in the country, there are rituals and traditions that make it unique.

Public baths are to be entered naked and they are separated by sex. Men and women have their own experience.

Ryokan Japanese Onsen

The Hotel Kanaya Kinugawqa has two very beautiful spa areas that they rotate every day so that men and women can experience both of them.

Dave and I had the opportunity to go in to film and shoot the baths while they were changing them over.

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Rules of an Onsen - How to Take a Japanese Bath

When visiting an onsen, you must follow the rules.

Before going into the hot pools, strip down from your Yukata to your "birthday suit" and then wash with the water, shower or bucket provided.

Our hotel had shower stations set up beside the baths complete with a stool, bucket, soap, shampoo and even loofahs.

Clean yourself thoroughly before going in the bath.

Towels and robes are provided.

Note: many public onsens require you to bring your own soap, towels and robes but the high end hotels like the Kinugawa hotel offer everything you need.

There are lockers to put your clothes and valuables in and this onsen had many lounge chairs and seating areas.

We were treated with saunas and steam rooms too!

A Japanese Onsen is used for quiet contemplation and relaxations so be as quiet as possible and sit back and relax.

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Time for Bed

Ryokan Japanese Bedtime

It's been a full day of eating and relaxing in the hot baths and you will be ready for an incredible night's sleep.

Many Ryokans offer pyjamas to sleep in and the Kanaya Kinugawa was no exception.

Pyjamas are not to be worn in public, they are strictly for use inside your public room.

They gave us a comfortable pair of pyjamas for sleeping which we changed into before lumbering off to our dreamland in our cozy beds.

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See our Video Tour of a Japanese Ryokan

Check the video tour of our stay at the Kanaya Kinugawa Hotel and see what it's like to experience a tatami room and onsen.

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